tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post745615885051188504..comments2024-01-29T12:15:35.715-05:00Comments on Practical Worship: (Bump) Halloween?CFHusbandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15834715315798433983noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-46962128792812419952012-10-31T13:19:07.880-04:002012-10-31T13:19:07.880-04:00We share the same beliefs as you do on Halloween.....We share the same beliefs as you do on Halloween...we avoid the scary costumes (and definitely sexy!) and focus on the fun in Halloween. However, we have a child who cannot eat by mouth--anything. He has a central line, a g tube and a j tube. He is about to turn 3. Last year, in an effort to normalize things for him, we took my kids trick or treating (we would love a Trunk or Treat but none are around here) and thought we could do a switch of the candy he received. It failed and was a miserable experience for him. We are struggling with how to approach it this year. We've researched just about every Fall Festival, Harvest Party, etc. and they are all candy focused. I really wish there was an event that included treats for the kids who can't participate in the candy. I recognize we are a very tiny part of the population but if you have any ideas, I'd love to hear them. :-)Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10455715223414624711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-79662322530910228832009-12-08T12:59:24.488-05:002009-12-08T12:59:24.488-05:00I think you may have explained everything I wanted...I think you may have explained everything I wanted to say, but wasn't sure how! For Halloween this year, my boys (5 and 7) decided to be a Fisher of Men (fisherman), and a Soldier (in God's Army). My Fisher made "fishing license" that said God Loves You, and my soldier made crosses out of popcicle sticks(when turned upside down looks like a sword), that said Jesus Loves You. Each house we went to, the boys very proudly shared a gift and explained what it was and that God loves them. They were much more excited about sharing the Word of God than they were about receiving candy. <br />As you said...it is all about what you make of a day...any day. My hope is that my boys touched someone's heart that night!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-83695480347103814922009-10-29T17:26:39.176-04:002009-10-29T17:26:39.176-04:00We have chosen to forego celebrating halloween. I...We have chosen to forego celebrating halloween. It was something my husband felt strongly about when we were dating. We both grew up Trick-or-Treating - he had a fun time and I had been terrorized by an overly zealous neighbor, so when he said "let's not," that was OK by me! <br /><br />We tend to do whatever we would do on any other night. My 3 kids are teens/young adults now. It's never been a big deal to them. We have in the past watched the movie "Luther" and had a Reformation Night, but usually we just continue our usual deal. Because we live in the country, we don't have ToT-ers coming by, so that's perhaps made it easier to ignore the day. Perhaps our decision would have been different if we had lived in a neighborhood. We don't have a "halloween alternative" at our church either. In fact, nothing at all has been said about halloween one way or the other at our nondenominational church.<br /><br />To me, whether one chooses to celebrate halloween or not to celebrate it is a personal decision. We aren't legalistic about it and don't feel our salvation hinges on our decision. I also definitely don't feel our decision is a "holier" one than anyone else's. <br /><br />Hope you guys have a great night. (I have loved your costumes you have done in the past, BTW.) As for me, I'll be watching "Breakfast at Tiffany's" and eating popcorn with my girls.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06342494603944690593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-23479063861986130622009-10-29T15:10:18.776-04:002009-10-29T15:10:18.776-04:00I can totally relate to this. As a kid my parents...I can totally relate to this. As a kid my parents went back and forth on the to trick or treat or not to trick or treat issue. Some years we did, others we did the Harvest Party (and we were Presbyterians) others we did movies or bowling... I wondered what I would do when I had kids. <br />We do participate in trick or treating. In my neighborhood it is a big deal,everyone has tables out on their driveways, neighbors talk and mingle. I can't imagine the message we would send to the community if we shut the doors and turned out the lights. This is a rare and golden opportunity we have to open our doors, share some treats, and get to know our neighbors. We don't do anything grotesque or ghastly in our decor or costumes. But, I welcome the chance to befriend my neighbors and let them get to know us a little more.LifeAtTheCircus.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07707823906597511600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-56741591276104838882009-10-29T14:30:29.323-04:002009-10-29T14:30:29.323-04:00I've heard of other churches in the US doing T...I've heard of other churches in the US doing TrunkorTreat. Of course, if you wanted to avoid the Hallowe'en thing altogether, you could hold an All Saints party. All Saints is/was a very big holiday in France; I was saddened to see their supermarkets have started selling Hallowe'en tat, like ours do.....Mrs Redboots (Annabel Smyth)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11270027663691257254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-23567935319651128842008-10-01T08:49:00.000-04:002008-10-01T08:49:00.000-04:00Since we stole the idea from somebody else, feel f...Since we stole the idea from somebody else, feel free to steal it from us.CFHusbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15834715315798433983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-10417331182194411142008-09-30T23:16:00.000-04:002008-09-30T23:16:00.000-04:00I think it's cool - the ToT - I was going to sugge...I think it's cool - the ToT - I was going to suggest to my pastor that they check it out for an idea for us -- how would you feel about being ripped off idea-wise???<BR/><BR/>We have SO MANY UNCHURCHED that this would bring to us. One way to get grown people is hook their kids! Generally, we do some sort of party for the kids, games, candy, cake walk, etc, and they are encouraged to dress up if they want to (nothing too out of the realm of acceptable of course). The kids have a blast. It is closed to our church kids though. I can see this being a TREMENDOUS outreach opportunity. We do a carnival/festival day in a rough part of our town in the spring to reach that particular part of the community, but this could be a great fall thing for us! draw those folks in and hopefully get some savin' goin' on!.<BR/><BR/>I pretty much am right on with what you said - it's not about the date or the event - it's about the intent... Some people turn Christmas into an unholy day.. intent is everything!<BR/><BR/>best costume ever - my mom, not a crafty wonder, made us into a "cloud" 1 year - involved a ridiculously huge waste of toilet paper and standing very close together at all times...<BR/><BR/>of course, they also scared the living tar out of us about the candy - even went so far as to take it to the local hospital to be x-rayed a couple of times before we were allowed to delve into it -- however, we also lived right outside a major city and did have a child get cut badly by a razor blade in a popcorn ball.. some people... <BR/><BR/>it wasn't long after that the fun was gone and my mom was too worried to let us go begging... but some fun memories from before then!Kimberlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11911408307323515812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-82970831519758962142008-09-30T22:31:00.000-04:002008-09-30T22:31:00.000-04:00What a cool idea (I saw the links/spoofs on your C...What a cool idea (I saw the links/spoofs on your CFHusband blog and was SO curious about the "trunk" part...)! I wish we had something like this out here in CA. I love the spoof ads!<BR/><BR/>You make a great case for a God-centered Halloween. I never thought of it that way!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10455715223414624711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8991013919023520025.post-45654471804185059982007-10-27T13:22:00.000-04:002007-10-27T13:22:00.000-04:00Thank you, thank you, thank you for being rational...Thank you, thank you, thank you for being rational about this! I love your thoughts on this. I went trick or treating every year when I was growing up, my kids have gone every year, and yet we still love the Lord. My son is seven and wanted to be the Grim Reaper this year (apparently many of his school mates are dressing up as this or other gory things) and we said absolutely not. We do have limits on what we will allow him to wear and I explained this to him and he seemed to understand. He is going as a Stormtrooper instead, and my daughter is a kitty cat princess. :) <BR/><BR/>BTW, my mom didn't make our costumes, but we wore those vinyl ones with the plastic masks that came in boxes. Now THOSE were hot and sweaty! Jerry Seinfeld wrote a hilarious children's book about this a couple of years ago. :)<BR/><BR/>Again, thanks for the thoughts. I hope your trunk or treat goes well!higgie08https://www.blogger.com/profile/10000341458217892452noreply@blogger.com